A fulfilling life is built from knowing what truly matters to YOU.
I know what it’s like when you’re unsure of the direction your life is heading.
At age 32 I seemingly had it all – the nice house and cars, the engagement ring on my finger, financial stability from my career, and enjoying some luxuries in life. My career was heading in a new direction having been approached with an amazing job opportunity and relocation package, and I was excited by the prospect of it all.
But all the excitement of the shiny new opportunity was tarnished with uncertainty.
Trying to make the perfect decision carried a huge mental pressure. I was consumed with doubt and started questioning other parts of my life too. Leading me to feel even more unsure.
I’d gone from feeling super successful and confident, to feeling confused and alone. With the added pressure of trying to make big life decisions I turned down the offer, wondering if I’d later regret this decision.
Navigating forwards felt like guesswork, when what I wanted was certainty.
If someone could have shown me a way to find the answers and direction I so desperately wanted back then, I could have fast-tracked the discovery process and got on with loving my life sooner.
So, this is what I do for others now.
I offer them an alternative to the ‘trial and error’ path through life which can be long, lonely, frustrating and costly.
And instead show them the fast-track route to a life they love. A life that is truly them, a life they feel sure of. So they can start living that life now!
A little about me
My career history spans a number of industries, and includes a variety of roles, from customer facing, up to Director level.
I love that people are less interested by the big stuff though and more interested in asking questions about the fun stuff such as when I was Cabin Crew for TUI and Japan Airlines, and a brief stint as a Home Organiser on the TV program ‘Sort Your Life Out’.
What lights me up…
I love to dance around home to dance music, and the thing that makes me feel even more alive is connecting with people through music, whether that’s dancing, singing or DJ-ing (mostly my friends doing the DJ-ing btw).
Being in water also makes me feel alive.
Travelling and experiencing new things - I love variety.
Being up high on the landscape, or in a plane, enjoying the views. Plus I love a map.
I do love a plan but I’m also excited by the magic of going with the flow, and enjoying moments totally absorbed in the present.
Life is too precious to feel like you’re existing, when you could feel alive.
Over the years I’ve had a number of people say to me they wish they had my courage to go do things or make big changes.
And I know from experience, it’s scary making changes when you are unsure.
But I also know how confident and excited you can feel about making changes when you’re clear on who you are, what you want, and you trust yourself.
Change isn’t reserved for the brave.
I love making change and personal growth more comfortable and accessible for people.
That’s why I’m also an volunteer Business Mentor for Black, Asian , and Ethnic minority women, with an organisation called ‘Ambitious Women’.
What changes have you been thinking about?
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I’m grateful for the opportunities we have that generations before us didn’t have.
One of my grandmother’s schooling finished at age 13, then her work-life began, supporting the family income. My other grandmother grew up in a culture which included arranged marriage, and was married at 16.
Being aware of, and grateful for, the freedom and opportunities I have, that generations before us didn’t have, has empowered me to take advantage of the choices I have in my relationships, work, further education, where I live, and more.
So much is possible nowadays, but I also see how much we are conditioned by stories and societal norms from previous times, making it easy to limit ourselves to what we’ve always known and are shown. Plus the noise from all the messaging that tells us what a great life or successful life looks like distracts us from our freedom to choose and create a life aligned with who we truly are as individuals.
This is why I love to help my clients open up new perspectives, to let go of the beliefs that create fear and uncertainty, let go of the ‘one size fits all’ template for life, value the freedom and choice they have, and discover how they want to experience their life.
Ready to take a step closer to knowing what you want?
Join me for a FREE introductory call.
We’ll start to explore which areas of your life you’re feeling unsettled or unsure, and how you could move forwards in your exploration.
We’ll take a look at some of the challenges and doubts creating the uncertainty.
This is an opportunity to talk openly in a safe space, where you can hear your own thoughts free from external judgement.
You’ll leave with more clarity, and a simple next step.